A Proverbs 31 Woman: Part 1

As we have established in earlier posts, the author of this particular chapter of the Bible is up for debate. Regardless of the identity behind the author, the truth behind the author's words are rather specific and still hold true today. The words are being rehashed as to the virtues that the author was taught by his mother, focusing on alcohol and the finding of a virtuous wife. We shall now begin to look into the mother's advice on the makings of a Godly woman and the qualities to be sought in a wife. I realize that some readers may find these "virtues" to be old fashioned or bonds upon the equality of the sexes, and if you happen to feel that way, one my apologies, and two that's unfortunate. In this 3 part series we shall look at the 6 characteristics of a Godly wife: her virtue as woman and a wife, her devotion as a homemaker, her generosity as a neighbor, her influence as a teacher, her influence as a mother and finally her excellence as a person. Proverbs 31:10-12 Address the character of the wife. Praising her as with worth far beyond jewels, a rarity that is a blessing from God as described in Proverbs 18:22 "He who finds a wife, receives a blessing from God." She is meant to be found, a woman is meant to be pursued and therefore it is the man's responsibility to begin the courtship and romance; yes, to work to win her favor. For it is by pouring his time and energy into pursuing her that "the heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil, all the days of her life." A virtuous wife stands by her husband in love and supports him throughout all things. Providing a safety and security that cannot be found elsewhere; becoming an essential part of the home. The husband entrusts his wife with his material possessions and household for she has demonstrated her ability as a good steward throughout the courtship.